Once the cremation-over-burial decision has been made, all that's required is an authorization. This is provided by the person who is the legally identified or appointed next-of-kin. Once all authorization documents are signed, and service charges are paid, the body can be transported from the place of death to the crematory, and the cremation process can occur. However, there are some other things you may wish to consider, such as:
- Is there a particular set of clothes (such as a military uniform or favorite dress) your loved one would appreciate the thought of wearing? This will focus on the cremation arrangement conversation, and your funeral director will advise you on your best options regarding jewelry or other valuable personal items.
- Are there any keepsake items you'd like to include in their cremation casket? Perhaps there's a special memento, such as a treasured photograph or letter? We sometimes suggest family members write cards, notes, or letters to their deceased loved one and place them in the casket before the cremation.
- Would you or other family members like to be present for–or participate to some degree in–your loved one's cremation? Because we know how healing it can be to take part in the act of "letting go." We also welcome the opportunity to bring interested family or friends into the crematory. Please discuss your desire to participate with your funeral director.
- What will you keep the cremated remains in after the cremation or the service? Many families are simply unaware that they can purchase a cremation urn to be placed in a particular place, such as the family home. We offer a large selection of urns to help memorialize your loved one. Ask one of our caring funeral directors to see the wide variety of urns.
Given the religious, ethnic, and regional diversity among us, there are many other reasons for the dramatic rise in the number of cremations performed each year. According to Tyler Mathisen of NBC, one of those reasons "is the softening of the Catholic church's views of the practice. For centuries—until 1963, in fact—the church outlawed it. The church's laws still express a preference for burial. But the outright ban is a thing of the past."
He goes on to tell readers that the decline in nuclear families is another reason. "As more Americans live far from hometowns and parents, and as family burial plots have waned in popularity and accessibility, millions have turned to cremation as a practical and cost-effective way to care for a loved one's remains."
Cremation also allows a family the flexibility they may need in planning and preparing for a memorial service, celebration of life, or a scattering ceremony. While the cremation process can occur almost immediately (once all the proper paperwork is complete), the decisions required in planning a meaningful memorial for a loved one can be made in a relaxed, rational way.
One thing you can also be assured about cremation is that the professionals address all environmental impacts before moving forward with the process. For example, Casketed and embalmed remains take up cemetery space and can pollute the groundwater, but many still question the amount of atmospheric pollution created by the cremation process.